However, she won’t last with a man who is malicious for the rest of her life. Continue to be that man because there is a woman who is going to adore you and appreciate you for everything you are worth.Ī woman may choose to stay with a man who treats her badly because she fell in love with him during a time when he was pretending to be pleasant (somewhere in the beginning stages of their relationship). You are the man whose shoes no one has yet to outshine. If they can’t compete with you or do better, they become bottom of the barrel. You will be the standard for all of the men in her life that follow. She will remember that you made her feel like a woman, that even when she was wrong, you still made her feel like a woman. She will remember the way she could speak to you for hours.
She will think about the way you made her laugh or the way you dried her tears. When you are good to a woman - even if it ends for whatever reason - she will always remember you. Women remember every nice thing you do or say in the same way they remember every pitiless thing. And she carries them over to the next man.
That cruel comment you made about her mother, that day you were so angry you called her out of her name, those times you ignored her for no reason at all, the times you chose not to text or call and decided your friends were more important than she was, the times you didn’t open her car door, or walk her to her front door like a lady, she carries those in her mind. Your words and your actions can have effects on a woman that will last her a lifetime. You firmly believe from your bad experiences that most women actually enjoy being treated badly. Too many of you say that women do not really want a nice guy.